Traveling through time and space, wanting to lie down, but being forced to move forward

Chapter 745 Talking about Marriage (2)

Seeing that the mother and son finally stopped, Mr. Zou patted the kang and said to them,

"Xiu Lan, Jian Jun, both of you come over and sit down.

Jianjun boy, please tell us what Xiaoxue said. "

Liu Weihua frowned and asked, "Jianjun, did your sister encounter any problems over there?

Otherwise, with your personality, you wouldn't have told her about finding a partner."

Liu Jianjun did not hide anything and told her about the incident with Gou Zhihong. He also told her that Liu Jingxue was too strong and would scare away any male comrades who were interested in her.

“You don’t know how worried I am.

I originally thought that my little sister was too pretty and was worried that her face would attract some bad people.

She thinks too simply and is easily deceived.

I thought we should keep a close eye on her and not let her be easily deceived.

But then I thought, my little sister is so strong and has such high fighting ability that even I am no match for her.

If people knew her true abilities, which man would dare to provoke her or even marry her?

If we get married and have a conflict in the future, I am not afraid that my younger sister will punch him down with two punches."

Liu Jianjun spread his hands and said helplessly, "Grandpa Zou, Grandpa Wu, Dad, we are all men, honestly speaking, do you dare to marry someone you can't beat?

Aren’t you afraid that your husband’s authority will decline?

To be honest, I dare not.

I'm afraid most gay men in the world have the same idea."

Mr. Zou, Mr. Wu, and Liu Weihua remained silent, apparently agreeing with Liu Jianjun's words.

Liu Jianjun smiled bitterly, "I originally thought that my sister was just a little bit strong in combat and had some skills in making medicine, but from what she said yesterday, it's not as simple as just having some skills.

She is so ambitious that she surpasses everyone else.

You can't beat her, and you can't compare her skills. Which man dares to marry her?"

Wang Xiulan frowned. Could this be true?

She looked at Liu Weihua and asked, "Do you men really mind if your wives are better than you?"

“I can’t say I mind, but I mind a lot.

After all, men need to save face, and it is not a glorious thing for a wife to be better than him." Liu Weihua said.

Mr. Wu took a puff of his cigarette, recalled some things in the past, and couldn't help but sigh,

"Yeah, even if he didn't mind originally, if others make fun of him about it over and over again, his indifference would turn into concern.

I had a good friend who was in this situation before.

We are old friends and our families are all in business.

But his wife is much better than him in business. Since they got married, his wife has been managing the family business for him.

Originally he didn't mind it, but instead took pride in it and always showed off in front of others that he had a good wife.

Others couldn't stand it and made fun of him.

At first he didn't take it seriously, thinking that others were just envious and jealous. But later, as more and more people said it and it happened more and more often, he couldn't hold it in anymore and started to feel resentful towards his wife.

Later, he found a sense of superiority from other women and became even more dissatisfied with his wife.

Later, the couple that was once a happy couple became unhappy couples, and finally they broke up and their families were separated.”

Wang Xiulan remained silent. Since Liu Weihua and Mr. Wu both said so, then this might be true.

What about Xiaoxue? Is it true that she can’t get married?

"Are all gay men like this?" Wang Xiulan asked with a glimmer of hope.

Zou Laodao said, “I can’t say it’s all, I can only say it’s the vast majority.

Nothing is absolute, there will always be exceptions.”

“But people who like to live off others are generally not very capable, so how could Xiaoxue like them?

Xiaoxue told me that she would never compromise.

Besides, even if she wants to compromise, can we agree?" Liu Jianjun said.

He questioned Wang Xiulan, "Mom, you said you could watch Xiaoxue marry a man who has no skills and has to rely on her for everything.

By then, Xiaoxue will have to support the family.

Maybe she has to not only support the man, but also his entire family.

Not only do I have to rely on Xiaoxue to support the family, but I also have to find a lot of faults with her.

The whole family was bullied, only Xiaoxue was bullied.

If that's the case, it would be better to do as Xiaoxue said and let her live alone."

"But even so, we can't really let her live alone.

No matter how powerful she is, she will get old one day.

Who will take care of her if she has no offspring?

It's you or your brother, you are older than her." Wang Xiulan said worriedly.

Liu Jianjun sighed, "But it's not worth it to endure humiliation and hardship all your life just to have someone to take care of you in your old age.

And even if Xiaoxue endures until old age, as a child raised in a family that has watched his mother being bullied all his life, he will take care of his mother when she is old.

I'm afraid he kicked her away because he saw that she was old and useless.

There are many unfilial people in this world. "

No one in the room said anything, mainly because they had no way to refute Liu Jianjun's words.

They are older than Liu Jianjun and have seen more things than Liu Jianjun, so they naturally understand that what he said is the truth.

Liu Weihua blew out a smoke ring and flicked the ash under the kang, "So according to you, you support your sister not getting married?

What happens when she gets old?"

When Liu Jianjun heard this, he immediately retorted, "Dad, please don't misinterpret my meaning. I never said that I support my sister not getting married.

If she can find a capable man who treats her well with all his heart, it would definitely be better to marry him.

If a woman marries just for the sake of marrying, and marries a man who is useless and treats her badly, it would be better not to marry him.

You can't live a hard life for decades just for the illusory retirement benefits.

It’s unclear whether there will be anyone to take care of her in her old age.”

Wang Xiulan said, “I agree with what Jianjun said.

If you marry the wrong person, it is better not to marry.

With Xiaoxue's ability, she can live a good life even if she never gets married."

"If I don't get married, I will be too lonely.

What should I do when I am old and have no offspring?" said Mr. Zou.

Liu Jianjun scratched his head. "Actually, I talked to Xiaoxue about this. There are two solutions."

"Why don't you tell me what the solution is?

Don't keep us in suspense, can't you see we are getting so anxious that we are almost dying?" Wang Xiulan urged.

"My younger sister said that if she really can't get married, and we are worried about her retirement, we might as well adopt a child."

Wang Xiulan frowned, "How can an adopted child be better than one's own? What if he turns out to be an ungrateful person?"

Liu Jianjun spread his hands and said, "I have also said this to my younger sister.

She said that if she really couldn't get married, she would support my brother or my children.

She asked us to have more children and then give one to her to raise from a young age.

But my brother has been married for so many years and he only has Little Tiger.

Whether I will get married and how many children I will have is still unknown.

So this is not reliable either.”